THe secret to a magical wedding ceremony

Shhh, there is a secret to having a magical wedding ceremony...

Your wedding ceremony will set the tone for your wedding celebration and wedding reception. It is important to make sure your wedding ceremony is well drafted to include details of your love, the moments that brought you to the decision to marry each other. It's great if your wedding ceremony can include moments of laughter and love and sweet sentimental moments all things that will draw your guests into your wedding ceremony. 

But...there is one thing, one big thing that will make your wedding ceremony truly magical, are you ready? I've got the secret ingredient to making your wedding ceremony truly one of a king...here it is...

YOU

Yep, you read that right. If you want a wedding ceremony that is truly magical then you are the secret. I can write a magnificent wedding ceremony that includes all of the right things but...if you the two of you are not truly in the moment then your guests won't be either. 

So here is my suggestion to you on how to make your wedding ceremony magical. 

1. Be yourself, don't try to hold anything in or anything back. Your guests are watching and they want to see YOU, they want to know you are feeling all the feels that this day is as important to you as they know it is.
2. Let the tears flow, honestly if you hold back that's when the ugly cry face comes, so let it go! Just bring a handkerchief and don't be afraid to use that sucker. 
3. Laugh and smile and enjoy the your wedding ceremony. I've seen happy giggles take over, I've seen pure out spontaneous laughter and snorts that set a crowd on fire. If you can relax and enjoy the moment your guests will also. 
4. Look at each other, really look at each other during your wedding ceremony. Don't shy away because if you look you might cry, honey, you do you! In a world telling you to be authentic there is no more of a right time than the day you stand in front of each other and declare you are ready to take on the world as a married couple. 
5. Finally, breathe, yes, sounds simple but really relax and breathe in the moment that is your wedding ceremony. Your wedding ceremony is typically 30 minutes or less so breathe and relax and enjoy this little bit of stillness on your wedding day. 

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