I have the cutest option for hosting your elopement ceremony or marriage license signing...a studio in downtown Pontiac! It's white, it's open and airy and it's perfect for your ceremony and pictures. 
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Trying to find the perfect place to host your elopement or marriage license signing on a budget can be tiring and frustrating. Look no further this downtown Pontiac studio is affordable and allows you to welcome your closest family and friends to be a part of your wedding day - without the stress! Just pop in, get married and set off to lunch, dinner or your elopement honeymoon! 

Photos by Alexis of AC Backus Photography 

Waterford plays backdrop to many weddings in Michigan and at A Simple I Do we specialize in all things Waterford. All 3 Officiants grew up in Waterford Michigan and can attest to the many attributes it can offer for your wedding. 

Let's talk about a few favorite locations to host your elopement or simple ceremony within Waterford Michigan. 

We always suggest finding your favorite spot at a local park like Pontiac Lake where you can stand by the lake or on a beautiful spot near a walking trail and host your intimate wedding, elopement or simple signing. Let us not forget the many restaurants that are just waiting to play host to your Waterford elopement, such as The Lions Den, Fourth Tavern of Waterford or Fork and Pint. 

Gather up your closest friends and family and hire us to officiate your Waterford wedding. 

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Think elopement but less - that's right, the ultimate small wedding is simple and stress free. Meet me at the coffee shop and we will sign your marriage license and right there at the table I recite a simple vow for you and you say "I do" and then....I PRONOUNCE YOU MARRIED! I'll take care of filing your marriage license and provide instructions for how to change your name and apply for your marriage license. The only thing you need to do for this super simple wedding is to apply for your marriage license at your local county clerk's office and then round up two folks over 18 to come with you as your witnesses. 

There are many reasons couples choose a coffee shop signing or elopement. Currently in 2022 it would seem that couples still are apprehensive about holding a large wedding and waiting things out a bit, But there is no delay in making that married life legal, sign today, get married and then host the perfect reception celebration for your marriage anytime! 

Another reason may be cost, weddings can be very expensive and if you take that $20.000 savings and put it as a down payment on a home or a vacation or even just keep it in the bank you could be way ahead instead of in wedding debt. 

Personally I don't ask the reason, it's your business and I'm simply happy to assist in making your day perfect for you, whichever wedding way works best for you. 

If you are interested in a coffee shop wedding email me and let's set a date. Coffee shop weddings are done Monday through Wednesday between 10am and 1pm. I am happy to meet other days and times for just a little bit more of a fee. 

Nichole 

Let's start at the beginning, what does ELOPE mean anyway? Many years ago it was the notion, the idea that two people in love would run away and get married. Today however, the idea of eloping can really simply mean a small intimate wedding done anywhere. My version of an elopement is a small wedding 20 people or fewer planned 3-6 months in advance, but sometimes it can be planned even in a few days. The ceremony is short and sweet and the marriage is legal and stress free! Today's vision of eloping is meant to be cost effective and stress free. 

Once you've eloped you may choose to host a reception, a backyard BBQ or even just send out a lovely card to announce your newly wed life has begun. Here are my 3 suggestions on how to announce you've eloped! 

1. At your elopement ceremony snap a picture of the two of you. Use that picture to create a card, with the simple words "WE'VE ELOPED". I suggest using www.basicinvite.com as you can upload the addresses and basic invite will address the envelopes and even mail them out for you!  This is the easiest and quickest way to get the word out that you are married. 
2. Host a reception, have a gathering with your closest friends and family and when you send the invitation out make it simple and sweet using phrases like: "Join us for a celebration of your marriage" "We've eloped and it's time to party!" "We're married and can't wait to celebrate with you" 
3. Social Media announcements - Update that status to MARRIED and you can even get a little crafty using sites like www.canva.com to create a cute elopement announcement with your picture to post on Facebook, Instagram or any other medium you choose. 

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The idea is to remember the reasons you chose to elope, to keep it stress free, financially feasible and fun! 

Many couples share with me the anxiety they feel about standing in front of a lot of people during their wedding ceremony. It can be a lot to take in, the thought of all those eyes staring at you during your wedding ceremony. The nerves you may have for having to speak publicly, maybe you wrote your own wedding vows or even saying the simple "I do" seems all too much to you.  Let alone the the build up of anticipation during the planning process for your wedding, the actual ceremony itself can feel just so darn intimidating. Rest assured I can offer you a few tips to help ease those frightful feelings. 

I always guide my couples that once they have walked down the aisle, or even if you are not walking down the wedding aisle and perhaps you plan to begin a little more casually, stand close together and hold hands. Yes, even if your hands are sweaty and clammy, showing support to each other during your ceremony is paramount. And standing close together not only offers you a comfortable feeling but it's really great for your photos. A little hand squeeze or touch of the palm, or even kiss of the back of the hand can be all your partner needs to reassure them everything is going alright during your wedding ceremony. 

I know it may sound silly, of course you love each other, you're getting married after all. But everyone's love language is different, so words of affirmation are a safe bet. When you begin the ceremony, you're standing there facing each other, and typically I will begin by talking to your guests, this is your moment to talk to each other, take a quick moment to say "hello" or "I love you" or "you look amazing". Your kind words could be just what your partner needs to hear to reassure them in the moment. 

If you are nervous, your instinct may be to simply stare at your partner and hold tight for dear life until the kiss at the end of your wedding ceremony. But I assure you, if you take a deep breathe, take a quick look around to see the amazing people that love you, the decor you so carefully chose and really take in THIS life altering moment you may feel just a bit more at ease knowing your community has your back and all that planning really did pay off. Plus, we all know a deep breathe can help you center yourself in the moment. Now, remember this is a quick look around, you don't want to be avoiding eye contact with your partner the whole ceremony...that's awkward. 

I love a small ceremony with your closest friends and family by your side. There is something about an intimate ceremony that allows the stress to float away and the focus to really be on the love and joy of the couple. 

The Oakley wedding venue is in Holly Michigan and has the the sweetest and kindest owners you'll meet. Their intention is truly to provide you the best wedding day experience possible. 

The Oakley in Holly has a beautiful greenhouse where they host intimate weddings and they have put together a great inclusive intimate wedding day package. Simply add on catering, bar and me and you are set! 

While I love a good elopement in the park, sometimes you want a little more for your wedding day and The Oakley in Holly Michigan offers just that.

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